tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33366149935871171962024-02-19T21:09:29.548-05:00The WordsmithKathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.comBlogger509125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-35908966980450200322015-03-24T13:07:00.002-04:002015-03-24T13:07:25.406-04:00A Dream Let Go....<b>As a follow-up to the House Hunting entry of a few days ago, we found a wonderful place. For many reasons, it is perfect, although definitely <i>not</i> a down-sizing.</b> <b>The</b> <b>log home is smaller than our current home, but not by too much. It is still four bedrooms with 2.5 baths, a living room and a large kitchen. It has a front porch and a rear deck, as well as a full basement that is semi-finished, including plumbing for a kitchen. </b><br />
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<b>The well-built cabin is solid and was put together by Mennonite builders. It sits on 4 acres of rolling farm land, and has 2 more acres available to purchase at a very good price. There are three barns, one larger one, one the size of a one-car garage, and one smaller barn-shaped, two story shed which is larger than the one we have now. There are four rectangles of vegetable garden area</b>, <b>as well as blueberry bushes, thornless blackberry and raspberry bushes, grape vines, asparagus and rhubarb patches</b> <b>fruit and nut trees. And, there are lots of flowering bushes and gardens. Aside from all that, there is a large fish-stocked pond that borders the property, with permission from the owner, who lives across the pond, to use it</b>. <b>It's quiet and peaceful with little sound sound, other than those that Nature provides.</b><br />
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<b>The snag comes in the location. It's 25 miles away from our current home, and despite every human effort to have Mom move there with us, she will not budge. She doesn't want to live with us.....or anyone.... even though she could live in what could be a very cute basement apartment (with very little effort in making the space hers.) I guess I see her point...she's settled, and doesn't care to be up-rooted. She probably wouldn't feel very comfortable being there alone, with no close neighbors, so that might create some issues if we want to go to see our kids or away on vacation. Because it's so far from her, the property would not be ideal for reaching her in an emergency situation.</b><br />
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<b>So, as perfect as this log house fits into our idea of what we both have wanted, it's not the right time to do this. Perhaps the future will hold another place, maybe even a better one, though that is unimaginable. For the time being, this dream will be let go. </b><br />
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<b> </b>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-75402133996294105062015-02-28T17:20:00.001-05:002015-02-28T17:20:30.494-05:00House Hunting<span style="font-size: small;"><b>There was never a time in my memory that I didn't like to explore homes, attics and basements. The latter two are like treasure hunts. The homes themselves are intriguing to me as I'm curious about decor, architecture and design. </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>Currently we are discussing the idea of moving to a smaller property. We bought a newly-built farm house design in 2005, moved into it in 2006, built a good sized room off the rear of the house to provide space for family gatherings. We have seven kids and eight grandchildren, most of whom don't have work schedules that allow them to visit often, therefore, we're heating and trying to maintain this large house for just the two of us. So, I've been house hunting again.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>What we're really like is a smaller home on a smaller lot, less to keep up, less time and cost to operate. I think I could live in a condo....maybe on a lake or a retirement community of people around our own age. Then we'd pay the yearly fee, and someone else would be keeping the property in good shape, giving us the option to travel or do whatever we choose to, without the obligation to the work involved in yard care. But, that idea has a 'snag'. That snag is my husband's resistance to living so close to neighbors.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>This makes things a bit difficult in finding a property we can agree on. His idea, as the grandson of a real estate developer, is to have a lot of property.... the more the merrier. ( HEY!!! Isn't that going against the idea of our idea of down-sizing? ) We currently live in a subdivision with each home on a half-acre plot. Neighbors are close, but not as close as on the other side of a condo wall. I have a little trepidation about moving to a large acreage surrounded by woods or even vacant land. There'd be no one to speak to, wave to, or know if we were not within sight for a few days. (I watch too many crime-solving programs on TV..... I want to know that someone would be aware that I'd been scarce, before someone discovers me as a pile of bones on the kitchen floor!)</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>Ideally, I'd love to find a little log home, on a property overlooking or even including, a pond. I know that he'd like that too, and so that's what I'm concentrating on finding. I found an ad for one, located about 30 miles from here....I showed it to him. He likes it more than anything else so far, but doesn't like the price much. It's a small 4 bedroom log cabin....on 6 acres, with a stocked pond. He doesn't fish, but if there were catfish and bass outside my kitchen door, I'd learn, real quick, to bait a hook, and take the catch off the hook! </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>So....how is 4 bedrooms on 6 acres called 'down-sizing', you might ask. Now THAT is a good question.....and I must admit that it truly <i>isn't </i>fitting well under that category. However, it sure fits the idea of our joint dream! </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><br /></span>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-66947412135141773422014-12-01T11:14:00.002-05:002014-12-01T11:14:54.647-05:00SHEEP<span style="font-size: small;"><b>She is the keeper of Sheep. She feeds, cares for, cleans, sleeps with Sheep. She has since Sheep entered her life.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>Sheep must feel VERY loved. Once, when she got an injury, she spent months wearing the same bandaid on her arm, while Abigail gave her time to heal. She travels everywhere possible with Abigail, and has for nine years. She has gone to New York, to Florida, to Massachusetts, and back. She enjoys those vacations, apparently, but she's actually opted out on a few of the activities, as she's propped herself up on the back of the couch, crosses one leg over the other, and with her hands behind her head, she's said, "Ahhhh....this is the life." She has quite a personality, too. She tells Abigail when it's time for another birthday, and tends to have three (or so) birthday parties a year! Sheep invites all the other animals to join, as well as all family members present!</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>I am quite amused at the enjoyment Sheep brings to her caregiver. I never dreamed that she would be as popular for as long as she has been...it's been 9 years now. I sometimes wonder whether Sheep will someday walk the aisle with Abigail as she goes to meet her intended! I'm quite sure that we've got some time to wait for THAT occure</b></span><span style="font-size: small;"><b>nce, and as we wait, we'll continue to look forward to those little adventures that Sheep brings forth!</b></span><span style="font-size: small;"><b></b></span><br />
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<b>Sheep and Abigail, wearing lambs ears....about 2009</b><br />Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-52895832748697967342014-07-15T14:55:00.001-04:002014-07-15T14:55:30.422-04:00Photographs and Memories....<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Jim Croce</b></span> <span style="font-size: large;"><b>sang that song which is playing through my mind right now. Those two words inspired this entry today.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Their comments and their stories are always a welcome sight. Even more pleasant are their photos. I love 'meeting' their families, seeing their life experiences, watching their children grow, watching their lives in photographs. It's fun for me to rehash memories with the long-time friends and giggle together about the remembrances. </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b> </b></span>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-45617704576911746002014-07-12T13:43:00.000-04:002014-07-12T13:43:29.923-04:00Once Upon A Time....<b><span style="font-size: small;">There was once a time when you had items that, when turned on, they would just do what they were meant to do....WORK! There weren't 410 different settings to choose, 39 buttons to push, or 73 different signals to sound. Golly! Whatever happened to those days?</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;">When I went to the car dealership to check out cars a year and a half ago, I had to listen to an hour and a half schpiel about all the extra doo dads and what each did and how you made them do it. I finally interrupted our very nice salesman and said, ' Don't you have a car that you can put the key in, put 'er in gear, and go?' Of course not! It has to have power windows,door locks, alarms, Serius radio, OnStar telephone, etc. C'mon. I could have saved enough to buy a few tanks of gas if I could just have manual roll down windows and push down locks on the doors. Nope, I don't buy your story of all of those radio stations and telephone being 'free for 6 months'. Nothing's free....especially at a car dealership!</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;">Then we have the kitchen appliances. Our house came with them, when we bought the house new. The stove is electric...the first mistake. It runs too hot, at least, the oven does, and after 8 years of trying to adjust temperatures to get the desired doneness of things when baking, I give up. The second mistake is that it has one of those glass cook tops. While I will agree that it's easy to clean IF you clean up a spill before it gets cooked on. However, if you're cooking and something boils over onto the burner, there is no way that you can clean it off until the burner cools, which takes a bit of time. By then, you really have a job. The next problem with that is that you can't scrub it with anything abrasive or you'll scratch the surface, so it actually takes some time to get it clean with a soft sc</span>rub product and soft scrubby thing, and a good amount of elbow grease! I won't even address the issues of the appliances, except to tell you that each one has it's own alarm. </b><br />
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<b>The oven has a high pitched beep-beep-beep to let you know it as reached the set temperature. The microwave has a beeeeep-beeeeep, again high pitched, to let you know that the time is up for whatever you have in the little box. The washer sounds a long series of beeps in another high pitched tone, to let you know that the load has finished washing...or something else is happening, maybe a load is off kilter. The dryer is equally demanding with its own irritating cry that it wants attention. The drip coffee pot too, lets you know that coffee is ready, as if I wouldn't be standing over that already, with eagerness for that first swallow of morning caffeine!</b> <b>Consider the possibility that those signals might all sound at one time, which might be likely in this house. It would be quite a cacophony. The ONE appliance that doesn't sound an alarm is one that I wish WOULD. That's the dishwasher. I'll tell you, that thing runs for nearly an hour and a half from start to finish. To save energy, we try to catch it before it goes to the 'heat/dry' cycle. If we do, it will just air dry in the hot dishwasher, and we've saved about a half hour or more of time and electricity.</b><br />
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<b>We know that Wars bring casualties. We know that there are those who have returned home with their scars from injuries, who have been presented with Purple Hearts and medals. We also know that there are many who have come home with PST, trauma that we've never known. Those people are seeing images in their heads the likes of which we'll never see. Those men and women are recognized for what they've endured.</b><br />
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<b>But, what about the many, the un-numbered others who bear the wounds of wartime? What about the Viet Nam veterans who returned to be spat upon, cursed, and more as they walked through airports wearing their uniforms. Those individual military men and women who were greeted with disrespect after putting their lives on the line for us. They carry that pain even today, so many years later, injuries as deep for some of them as if they'd been impaled by a bayonet. An ungrateful population of demonstrators, some of them cowards who would run to Canada to escape the Draft, rather than put their lives in jeopardy.</b><br />
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<b>What about the families who have no idea what happened to a loved one who was declared Missing in Action? Think of the way those people must feel, kissing their son, or brother, or grandson good-bye, and never hearing from them again. Consider the Mother who was notified by telegram, or by letter, that her son was declared dead, as was true of my friend's Mom. How did she go on through her life, bearing such an unbearable injury to her heart and soul?</b><br />
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<b>Go to the Wall in Washington, DC, and watch the visitors there. Look at the adult women and men weeping as they stand before a name of one they knew. Notice them tenderly touching the engraved name and softly tracing it with their fingers. These are showing the wounds they feel so many years later over the loss. Maybe one of them is a son, maybe a daughter...born while their father served in a foreign land. Those grown children might never have met their father. They have suffered the wounds of wartime, and they carry those unseen scars throughout their own lives.</b><br />
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<b>There are so many....uncounted.....who did not fight in a skirmish, yet they battle the pain that rides through their souls during their lives, things they could not control, brought about by the loss, the injury, the mental illness, the curses, the disrespect, of the ones they loved more than they can express to you. </b><br />
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<b>They, too, endure the Wounds of War. As I remember their lost ones, I also think of those who they left behind. </b><br />
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<b> </b>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-47704761067675752442014-05-11T10:22:00.001-04:002014-05-11T15:19:37.126-04:00What Can I Say?<b> Today is Mother's Day. It's a day when we find something special to do for our Moms, to let them know how much we appreciate them and their efforts. They, most of them anyway, deserve the praises and honors we shed on them.</b> <b>No one is perfect, but most of us will acknowledge that the woman we call our mother is the most perfect choice for us.</b><br />
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<b>I can, and I have, written about my Mom and some of the stories of her that I recall with appreciation. The fact of the matter is, there are not enough words in the human language to say how blessed I am that this humble, giving woman is my own Mom. We have shared everything for 66 years, both good times and bad ones. She's never disowned me, regardless of how frustrating I was to deal with. I will never disown her, either, regardless of how stubborn and determined she can be. She taught me to be a strong woman, and I've was infiltrated with some of her stubbornness, so there are times when we are too much alike and things </b><br />
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is a wonderful example, has always been to us, her children. I pray
that she has rubbed off on me, or will, during the years I have left. I
long to be such an example to those who know me, and that they might
learn along the way that we all must be patient, compassionate,
understanding, giving...and forgiving.... people, in order to make our
way peaceably through a difficult world of many different personalities
and ways of life.</b><br />
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<b>What can I say? Not much more
than 'Thank You, Lord for the blessing of this woman in my life, this
one who has taught me so much along the way. And Thank You, dear Mom,
for all you have put up with over the years, all you have given to so
many, all that you do still, to show us what a good servant of the Lord
looks like.' As I said earlier, there are not enough words ...... </b><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b> In my mind, I can smell those berries, and it reels back the memory film to earlier days. Suddenly, I'm sitting at a yellow formica table, on chairs with yellow vinyl seats. There's a yellow, dial wall phone above my head, and I have to move a bit to keep the long, twisted phone cord from tangling in my hair. The wall paper with the green ivy pattern makes me dizzy when I look at it, so I turn and face the kitchen sink where my Aunt Nita is laughing with my Mom as they slice the tops off the fresh strawberries they picked that afternoon. I watch the operation with my mouth watering, knowing that in a few hours, we'll be eating together at the picnic tables in the back yard. The grilled hot dogs and hamburgers will be followed by mounds of berries and fresh whipped cream over the warm cakes.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>When I was a child, that was the scene nearly every Sunday night of the summer. Family suppers in the back yard at Grandma's house. Of course, strawberries were there only in season, but that was my favorite time! There were 'strawberry suppers' at the Presbyterian church,too, and as a teen I was a part of the youth group which would help serve the delicious dessert to those who were present. When I grew up, and had children of my own, the church we went to had a big 'strawberry supper' . The berries were donated by twin brother farmers, who allowed the church ladies to pick them from the fields. Then they'd be prepared, cakes baked and the members of the church would join together that evening for fellowship together around the mountains of berries topped with cream. </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>Many things in life come and go, leaving us with only memories. Happily I report to you that one thing that remains is those wonderful, juicy berries! There will be no 'cool whip topping' for us...it'll be real whipped cream. There will be no store bought pound cake for us, we always opt for making the cake of Bisquick. It's only just minutes after my breakfast, and already I'm counting the hours 'til dinnertime! </b></span><br />
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<b> When you see this picture, you probably wince. You wonder who was in that car, what happened to them, how the accident took place, and maybe where it did. Don't you? </b><br />
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<b>This is a car I happened to see on the back of a car carrier when returning to work after lunch, at 1pm, on Sept 4, 1997. My heart stopped when I was it. The car was too familiar. I began to pray...'oh no! oh no! Lord, don't let it be......". I went into my office and sat at my desk, shaking like crazy, and dialed the phone number for the person I feared owned that car. No answer. I looked up and one of my co-workers stood at the other side of my desk, and said, 'She's alright. She medically alright.' Then she told me that it was my worst fear....my 70 year old mother, the most careful driver in the world, had been in that accident.</b><br />
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<b>The rest of the day unfolded and as it did, details came out. The collision happened at 9am,</b> <b>less than a half mile from Mom's house. She was T-boned on the driver's side, by a large pick up truck full of lawn mowers, and towing a trailer full of heavy professional mowing equipment. The truck was going too fast, and even though the driver tried to stop, the weight behind him prevented him from plowing into the car, propelling it another 50 feet or so, which rammed the front bumper into a tree on the opposite side of the road.</b><br />
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<b>Mom was in the local hospital, and was able to talk to me when I arrived. She was not concerned for herself, but asked if she'd hurt anyone else. She asked again and again, as if she didn't believe me when I told her they were fine....which they were. </b><br />
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<b>What you don't see, when you see this picture of her car, is in what ways she was injured. She suffered 7 broken ribs, a punctured lung, a torn kidney, broken hip and a torn pelvis. Her mind was fine, thinking completely clear. She kept over-night in order to stablize her, and the next day, after lunch, she was air-lifted to the University hospital at Stonybrook.</b><br />
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<b>What you don't know when you see this photo is how determined a woman Mom is. She was not going anywhere, although we nearly lost her at two different points in those early weeks in the intensive care unit. What you cannot see here is the fear that I knew at that point in my life. My faith kept me on track, but there was always that needling fear in the background which whispered in my ear when I saw the machines that kept Mom's breathing regular or the tube that inflated her lung. Fear taunted me when nurses answered my calls and they told me she'd had a 'bad night'. I had to grab fear by the throat and hand my emotions and my Mother into the hands of God. I had to allow God to do with her what He would, even if it meant I'd need to let her go. I had to have a bigger faith than the fear I had.</b><br />
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<b>What more do you not see? You don't know all that went on during the six weeks of hospital stays she had. You can't imagine the number of people who lifted Mom up in prayer for her healing....or the miracles along the way that took place during those weeks. But I know them all....and other things too. I know that faith as small as a grain of mustard seed can accomplish mighty things....because it <i>did</i> for me.</b><br />
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<b>Life brings us things that are fearful. There is no control over life, no matter what we think. We can control only the way we view those things in the moments that they occur. We can look fear in the eye and fight, like Mom did, and like I had to do too, but having the weapon of faith will work wonders! Things don't always go <i>our </i>way, but there are times when we must look beyond what we see, and know that things are happening that we cannot see. That's what faith is about.</b><br />
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<b>What else you may not know is, my Mother is still with us, at the age of 88. She stopped driving after the accident, she thought it was a good idea. She is healthy, in her right mind, and still living alone in her own home. From this mangled wreckage, she survived! and she is a walking miracle! </b><br />
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<b> </b>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-6715531085741957522014-02-20T09:54:00.000-05:002014-02-20T09:54:06.964-05:00Incomplete Picture<b><span style="font-size: small;">Some time ago I saw a picture of a bench overlooking a pond, with a question beneath it. "If you could spend an hour here, talking with anyone at all, who would it be?</span>"</b> <b>What a difficult question to answer! I put much thought into it, mulling it over, going through so many faces and personalities in history and life.</b><br />
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<b>Would it be Jesus, who could inform me of what He plans for me? Could I choose Helen Keller whom I've always admired for her determination and spirit? Would it be one of my ancestors who could fill in the blanks for me and tell me about their lives? What a difficult choice to make! </b><br />
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<b>Grandpa Loper was a small man, about 5 ft 5 in. I know he was thin and slight, because I own one of the jackets that were a part of his Coast Guard uniform. It's surprisingly small! I have many documents of his time in the service, rescuing those from the perilous seas. I see there his height, weight, eye color and when and where he was stationed during his long time of service. </b><br />
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<b>I have read the account of the 'last whale taken off Amagansett' in February, 1907. My grandfather was in one of the boats on that day. He was a very young man at that time. I would like to know what his thoughts were as he took part in that adventure with some of his family members. </b><br />
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<b>From the stories I have heard, he had a quick wit and a keen sense of humor. "He wasn't around much because he was stationed in different places" I have been told. That would have left my Grandmother to raise her 4 girls alone, for the most part. However, the girls knew their father, and loved him enough to have fond memories of their time with him. I only wish that I did.</b><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><b>Oh yes, and clotheslines! They are nearly a thing of the past. Many subdivisions don't allow them, which is an awful shame, I think. There is nothing like fresh air drying for things like bed sheets! Everything smells better when hung outside to air in the breeze, and white things are so much whiter when hung in the bright sunlight! Grandma had a clothesline in her yard....a square that was formed by four old tall posts, which were probably once growing locust trees. The rope was hung high on those posts and strung from one post to the next, and tied taut. Since the rope always seemed to stretch under the weight of wet clothing, there were long poles that had a fork at the top to catch the ropes and were then propped on the other end against the ground, lifting the clothing to prevent any reaching to the ground. We kids learned early to stay away from the clotheslines! Dirty hand prints on the newly washed sheets was frowned upon.</b></span><br />
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<b>No longer do I worry about the changes in my childhood homeplace. Changes take place in everything. My life had taken many turns since the days I lived on that property. A marriage, a family, a divorce, grown children, a new marriage, a move to another state. Not all changes are bad things, some bring real happiness. The days and events lived in that small ranch house my Dad built will always be a part of me, no one can change that. It is my hope that the memories made in the new residence, for the new occupants, will be as good for them as mine are for me.</b>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-9488578917865350772014-01-12T09:59:00.001-05:002014-01-12T10:01:10.994-05:00Memories of the Old House<span style="font-size: small;"><b>Inspired to write this morning, by the blog entry of a friend. He took a trip back to his childhood home and wrote of his feelings about it all. My own experience was somewhat different.</b></span><br />
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<b>The home I spent the majority of my young life in was built when I was about ten years old. It was a simple ranch house, three bedrooms and a bath. It was a typical model of the late 1950's and later. It wasn't fancy, by any means, but it was our home and many memories were made there. A few years later, a separate dining room, another bathroom and a bedroom for Grandpa were added on. My Dad and my Uncle Ros worked tirelessly after their day jobs and every weekend to complete the addition. </b><br />
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<b>The building of that house brought about the building of new friendships in our neighborhood, friendships that have lasted a lifetime. Preteen days found me spending much more time with the girls in the group than with my family members. It was the dawn of a new day for me...seeing more of how other people lived than what I knew at home. I didn't appreciate all that I saw, or come to realize until years later, how much better things were for me than I knew.</b><br />
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<b> Then came those confusing years as a teenager, new lessons to learn, new ideas to explore. I was struggling, like most teens do, to figure things out. My parents were wise and their lessons were taught to me from their wisdom. Again, I didn't always appreciate the strict rules and fact that I wasn't given permission to do what many of my classmates did on weekends. I wasn't so rebellious as to go against what I was raised with, so I missed out on what I thought must have been the best of fun. It caused resentments, but I got over it, and came to understand that though I was kept on a rather short leash, it was for my own good.</b><br />
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<b>The house was the place I introduced young men to my parents before I went out on dates with them. It was where my first husband proposed to me. It was where I prepared for my wedding, and where I brought home our first-born child a little more than a year later, as our new house was under construction. It was the place I ran to...to the house and to my parents' advice when things were rocky in my life. It was where we spent our first days mourning my Dad's death. </b><br />
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<b>Many years and events later, my widowed Mom decided it was time to sell that house. It saddened me. It was yet another loss for me. What would happen to that house? I hoped that another family would move in and enjoy making their own memories. It did not happen that way. A single woman, an investor bought it, and did absolutely nothing with it for a year, when she sold it at a profit. Again, I hoped for a new family.....and again, I was disappointed. </b><br />
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<strong>One day something strange happened. The sky was still blue, but there were some gray spots that floated against the backdrop, casting shadows on the earth below. The town folk watched to see what this was all about. Soon, there were more spots, and the sky was over taken with gray. There were no longer shadows. The people looked at one another, wondering what this new thing was. Very soon, they knew.</strong><br />
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<strong>A stranger had entered the area. He had a loud, booming voice. He looked like a dragon and his name was EGO. He belched smoke from his mouth, and with every puff of smoke, color was stolen from the town. The town looked as if a big fog had rolled in off the sea. At first the people tried to be friendly to the stranger, but he took the spinning wheels from them and spun yarns of his own.... long, bland, colorless threads. They tried to deal with him, but he would not have it. He came in and out of the town whenever he chose to, and when he was there, the people hid on him. They went into their homes and lived their lives, always aware that the dragon was around. They met in each others homes and secret rooms, trying to come up with a plan that would allow harmony and peace to return to their little village. </strong><br />
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<strong>EGO put his nose up to the windows, attempting to see into each life that lived inside. He</strong><strong> strutted in the streets, roaring his head off. With every deep breath, he grew larger. With every puff of smoke, another tail would grow. Soon EGO was so big he couldn't see inside the windows. All he could see was himself. He would primp and prance in front of his reflection thinking he was so impressive.</strong><br />
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<strong>The townspeople made a secret pact. They would lure him with a huge mirror, placed just outside the gates of town. They would convince him that he should take a better look at himself in that mirror. It worked! Once EGO saw himself in that large looking glass, he huffed and puffed and strutted, and grew even larger! Soon he was so big that he couldn't see all of himself in the new mirror!</strong><br />
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<strong>The townspeople went back inside the gates and bolted them shut! The knew that EGO had grown so large that he couldn't fit through the gate, even if it was unlatched. He couldn't fit inside their town! EGO was outside! They could ignore his huffing and puffing! Then the people realized something else. The air turned clean and clear again. The sky was blue and the sun shone on the sea. The flowers were brilliant colors again! The people could live in peace and harmony once more! </strong><br />
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<strong>They danced and sang and had a big party in celebration! And life in Sharetown, at the edge of the sea, was happy once more.</strong><br />
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<strong>Moral of the story: Sometimes what you think of yourself can give people a bad impression. If you want to fit in with others, make an effort not to take over. </strong>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-50574615449651055722013-10-22T11:16:00.002-04:002013-10-22T11:16:22.606-04:00Sun RoomIt's chilly in the sun room this morning. It's that time of year when the days later and cooler and then warm up to a comfortable temperature. It's that wonderful season when the air conditioner has been turned off, the doors and windows are flung open for the fresh air to flow freely through the house, and the heat is not turned on yet. I love this time of year.<br />
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It is the time where we begin preparations for the winter....putting outside furnishings away, cleaning up the gardens, having the heating unit checked and serviced. For me, it's also a time of removing things from the sun porch, where I work all Spring and Summer on my craft items. Soon it will be time to close the doors that attach this room to the kitchen, for the temperatures in the unheated space get too cold to spend much time there. We do open it again for our winter gatherings with family, but we do that days ahead of time so that it warms with the heat from the house or from the frequent use of the oven. We do have an electric fireplace too, with adjustable temperature control which heats a crowded room enough to be comfortable.<br />
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I really miss this room, though, in the winter. It is my favorite room in the house. It's so light and bright and comfortably furnished for sitting, eating, crafting. I could <em>live </em>in this room. Since it is almost a 4 season room, but not quite, I see little reason to add heat to it at this point. The sun room will soon be cleaned well, and closed up, but will be opened again a few days before Christmas for the incoming family. Ahhhh, well, the living will be done in the room intended for such action....the living room!<br />
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The biggest mystery for me is people. A friend recently wrote her blog regarding the question of whether nature or nurture is responsible for the differences in an adults raised in the same environment, with the same set of parents and with the same set of rules, etc. I've no answer for that one. I tend to think it's more a matter of nature at work, than nurturing, but someone else will, undoubtedly, have a different opinion. The debate could go on for eons, and I shan't take part in that one.<br />
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People interest me. I care about them, and I find their behaviors fascinating....and frustrating. While I may be curious as to what 'makes them tick', I know that I won't ever know the answer. What I <em>can</em> do is <em>attempt</em> to understand them. It's not always easy, but if one does not make an effort to show kindness and try to understand, even in a frustrating situation, it will become a time of resentment, anger, and frustration. Who needs <em>that?</em><br />
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Each person ever born has been created just the way we are....as an individual. Some are nothing like us in word, deed, personality, appearance, thinking, behavior. Some behaviors are a short distance in make up from wild dogs, some are a speck away from angelic. I'm not a doctor, but I am an observer and I believe that behavior can be controlled. If you watch a person who attacks, you can get an idea about them. They don't know how to temper themselves, their thoughts and tongues when they feel threatened. Yes, they feel <em>threatened</em> by something. Maybe it's that their statement was debated, maybe they feel their intelligence is under question. Who knows why they choose to attack rather than discuss with an open mind? They have a point to make, and they're going to win at all costs. Such people end up losing in the end, because their ship was let float untethered, rather than having been steered by an able hand. They lose their audience, they lose respect, they lose friends.<br />
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Those who attempt to live in peace with others seem to try to keep themselves free of such situations. Once bitten, one does not return to pet a vicious dog. They keep their eye on them, but don't jump into the dog fight. Those people are the ones who show the true 'people smarts.' They know how to steer out of the rough waters, or just ride the waves. They know how to stay strong in their beliefs without spewing it out in annoyance. Angels!<br />
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So many types of personalities, so many types of brains at work! Most all of them make me scratch my head in wonder at what really lies behind their behavior and words. I'll never know the answers, but still, I watch....and <em>try</em> to understand.Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-42895030948417795972013-10-10T05:26:00.002-04:002013-10-10T05:26:52.066-04:00You Bin Con-vuhted!<strong>Good Heavens! The Southern Baptists will be a-twitter! </strong><br />
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<strong>And there we were, sitting on the front porch, takin' in the fresh, cool, early Fall air, and perusing the contents of a new book of Southern recipes. As we drooled over every page, we discussed dinner menus for the next three and a half years. (Any of you who know my husband, will understand that without being told. ) Before long, something amazing happened.... my native dialect was o'er taken by a distinctly Southern drawl!</strong><br />
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<strong>Ah be-gay-n ta speek lahk Palla Deen ...ow-ah puh-haps it wuz mo-ah lahk Carol Bur-nay-ett de-id own her show whay-en she de-id the "Gow-one With The Wee-ind" skit. At iny junct--shun, ah wuz a-bow-t ta ha-ave a spell involvin' the 'vape-ahs.' In uthuh werds, ah wuz feelin' a bit puny an' wundrin' wut wuz hap-nin' ta may. Lay-and sykes!</strong><br />
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<strong>Ah wuz not suh-tin if'n ah wuz sud-dunlee pa-zay-essed, or wuz ah speekin' in uthuh tungs?! Lordy mercy....the chuch wud have a conniption fo'sho-ah in ethah kise! Ah say-id ta mah hus-bund thet ah wuz tuh-nin' inta a true Suth'n bay-ell. He jist gave may one-uh them glant-sez sech as he's prone ta due na-ow 'n a-gay-in... 'n thay-in he say-is.....'You bin con-vuhted!'</strong><br />
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<strong>Mah, mah, mah!!! Duz thay-at mean ah'll be fah-tin' the Civil Wow-ah agin' the Yankees? Ah ain't no nat'ral bow-un Suth'nah.....'n ah ain't fixin' t' faht with no-buddy! Heck fahr! Ah don't cotton t' fah-tin' a'tall. It ain't in mah puh-son-al-it-tay! Ah s'pose if'n ah had 'ta pick a sahd, ah'd have ta chewz mah nat'ral bow-un side, which (whisperin...) was a Union folk. But, thay-en, </strong><strong>wuld ah have ta way-uh a Union Suit?? Ah mah-t have ta pay-ass on awl the-is heah wow-ah. Me 'n a union suit jist wuld-int git on way-ell, ah don't reckon. </strong><br />
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<strong>On t'uthah hay-end, if'n ah was t' con-tinya t' talk this-a-why, they's go-own t'be sum folks who's go-own t' git t'thankin' ah'm plumb crazy owe-uh that ah'm a-makin' a jowk-a they-um. Nee-thuh one wuld be the ach-u-wal truth. It's jist a sitchy-a-tion thet I don't have iny control ovah, don'tcha know? Ah reckon it'd be saw-ta hahd t' convince thay-um ov thay-et, how-evuh. So, if'n the next tah-me y'all lay yo' ahz upon may, puh-layz say wut y'all kin do 'bowt gittin' the tah 'n feth-uhs from off'n mah pow-uh say-elf. Ah'd be mah-tee oblah-ged if'n ya wuld do thay-et fo' may. </strong><br />
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<b>People tend to deal with stress anyway they can. For me, after years and years of trying to 'fix' everything myself, I've learned to pray about it. I've learned to pray about <i>everything.</i> It's the only way I've found that keeps my spirit at peace. I've been called a zealot, and a host of other names because of my faith that God can handle all things better than I can. Who cares? Not me....it's MY life and MY way of living it.</b><br />
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<b>I see others struggling, sagging under the weight of their situations. I see them saying they want to give up, 'what's the use.' I see them saying that they want God to come and take them to Heaven because this life is too much for them. I see others crying or taking medicines in order to handle whatever the stress is at the moment.</b><br />
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<b>It makes me sad to see these that I care about in such dire straights. I would love to jump in and take it over for the. I'd love to use every word I know that could soothe them. I'd like to dismantle the problems or the people causing them, but it's not within my capabilities. My heart goes out to these whose presentations from life cause them such anguish. Since I can't do much to help except to listen, to offer a soft word or two, I lift them up to the God who has helped me so often. I know what He can do, I've seen miracles happen. He's just waiting to be asked.</b><br />
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<b>And so....Reader, whoever you are....though I may not know you personally, I know that you have times of stress and anxiety. We all do, because we're human. Know this. Today, I will lift you, un-named before my Lord, and will ask on your behalf that your burdens will be lighter, your fears dissolved. I will pray that you will be reminded that you cannot do it all alone, and that there is someone who can and will change things for you, if you will ask.</b><br />
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<b>Be blessed, dear friends, with peace and comfort today. You've got a friend on earth, and a greater one in Heaven. Talk with Him.</b>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-35784142196054031452013-10-08T11:34:00.003-04:002013-10-08T11:34:56.170-04:00Bully....<b>Louder, more bold, overbearing, he speaks. She tries to explain....he shouts above her in condescending tones, insinuating that she is a dim wit. She endures, but does not believe his words. She is convinced of her worth, not to him, but of her own worth in the world she lives in. She will not argue with a fool, for she knows that she wins by walking away.</b><br />
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<b>Let him believe as he will, as there is no changing his mind. She knows that. She is on her way to better places, it's only a matter of time before she will see him no more. He will not know where she goes, she is sure of that, for he has no idea of her plan or the people who protect her now and will do so in the future.</b><br />
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<b>He has no idea of the way they laugh at his behavior, of the names they speak to her in private, but not in public, places. His social skills are lacking severely, he's always been a loner, and is now, as well. He's unaware that he exhibits unacceptable behavior. He has been approached about it, but as brilliant as he thinks he is, he does not comprehend that his modus operandi will not be tolerated. He is, in his mind, superior to all others, and he has no reason to listen to voices other than his own. He's unteachable.</b><br />
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<b>She knows, she understands his problems, and she's finished with him and his degradation, his pompous arrogance, his bombastic, inflated ego. She knows who she is and what he is, and she's leaving it all behind her. </b><b>That's what happens to people like him.</b><br />
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<b>It doesn't always happen that way for people like her. Some are ruined because of the belief in his words. Some are caught in the cage of lies. Some don't have protection, or a place to go. She does, and as she walks away, she remembers the words of one who once said, " It is a small man, indeed, who must degrade another in order to appear great, if only in his own eyes." </b><br />
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<b>She has won her war and walks away without so much as a battle scar.</b>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-53748207806296818212013-10-06T11:47:00.002-04:002013-10-06T11:47:33.645-04:00Irritations...My heart is heavy today, for a few reasons. I've seen on Facebook that some who are connected with me in reality and some who are known only by Facebook interaction are suffering. Some are truly troubled, others are irritated by things in their lives. I've given them some prayer time, and much thought. I know that these things will pass, and most will come out of these troubles having learned something from them, and with growth because of them.<br />
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As for me, I have an irritation. There is an association with one who seeks, unfailingly, to attack me in some form or fashion, regardless of what I say. This one is a disagreeable person, even when I attempt to avoid conflict, it comes directly at me. I've tried to ignore it, I've tried to rationalize it, I've tried to be understanding. I'm not one who cares much for dissention. Apparently, I rub this one the wrong way. I cannot avoid this one, as we are members of the same group and often have interaction with the other mutual friends. Overall, I have a very pleasant experience and have had with my fellow Facebookers. This one, though, is my thorn in the flesh.<br />
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I'll get through this without further incident.....I hope. It'll be a mind game on my part, not to in any way acknowledge the presence of one who seems to want an all out war of words with me. Right now my head is telling me to do just this, when inside I'm feeling annoyed that I can't type a thing without some negative reaction from that one.<br />
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Ahhhhh well, such is life, I suppose. Nobody is loved by everyone....I'll just stick to the ones who care about me, I guess.Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-10740245039408696482013-10-05T07:49:00.000-04:002013-10-05T07:53:13.337-04:00Saturday Morning Thoughts<b>It's Autumn.....at least the calendar tells us that it is. The weather here in upstate SC has other plans, however. It's predicted to be 87 degrees before the day is done. I think that's too warm to call it Autumn here, and Mother Nature thinks so too, I guess. There's not a sign of colored leaves yet. </b><br />
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<b>My mind quickly flashes to my home town, where Fall is beginning. The end of the tourist season has come, and the natives are rejoicing over that and the cooler weather. I allow myself to drift into thoughts of the place.</b><br />
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<b>The ocean beaches are deserted at this early time of day while I write. But for a million footprints in the sand from former visitors there, you'd think no one ever came to view the sea. Those of us who are drawn there, know that what we see at this hour hides the truth. Before the sun has even awakened, the surf casters will be on the beach in their waders, readying their gear for a catch. The sea birds will dive and soar at the first glint of the sun, competing with the human fishers for a harvest from the ocean. </b><br />
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<b>Photographers with their digital cameras, lenses and paraphernalia will also arrive to catch the early light. Some who must make a daily trek along the shore will come too, in order to get their exercise....or to calm a spirit. Others will arrive in their cars soon, to sit and stare at the ever-changing sea. Still others seem to think it is their duty to go every morning, to be sure that no one has pulled the plug and let the ocean drain away.</b><br />
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<b>Today, as I do on many other days, I remember the way the ocean claps as it hits the sand, spraying foam high in the salted air. I listen to the rhythms of the waves that sound deep within my soul. I am far from my native home, but it is not far from me. I smell it. I hear it. I see it. It is deeply embedded in me, as if the salt water runs through my veins. Because I cannot visit today, I visit my memories.</b><br />
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<b>The sands are carried by the sea....and the sands of time have carried me to a different place in the world. A place where pine trees grow tall and the heat of day arrives later and the sun sets over mountains. Still, as the sands of the beach drift in the Autumn winds, covering the footprints of those who were there, and though I have drifted to an inland home, my own being there on that beautiful island can never be erased. It is all a part of who I am, and will always be so.</b>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3336614993587117196.post-71700381839867359082013-10-01T09:21:00.001-04:002013-10-01T09:21:26.619-04:00Critters...<b>Suffice it to say, I'm not thrilled with certain types of creatures. Yeah, yeah....I know...."All creatures, great and small....the Lord God made them ALL. " All that is <i>GOOD, </i>but I don't know if He had it in mind for us to <i>like</i> everything He made. I do appreciate His creativity and diversity of His wonderful handiwork, however....I'm not a fan of some of His art. I liken it to my non-understanding of abstract art or rap 'music'. I just don't care for it, mostly.</b><br />
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<b>In this case, I don't understand the need for flies. They are pesky little creatures who land without a thought on things like piles of dung, and directly go from there to a plate of food, with no consideration whatsoever for the one who was about to devour that food. I also don't see why God chose to make mosquitos. Now, what earthly good can there be in an insect that buzzes in your ear and gnaws on your skin, causing it to erupt in an itchy, red bump.....or worse yet, that may cause you a deathly illness?! Then there are fire ants. They are not your common picnic invader, they are tiny red versions with huge, invisible teeth that clench the nearest skin clad human body part with a vengence, leaving a burning, incredibly itchy area that lives on for days. What's the point, I wonder?</b><br />
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<b>I'm also not thrilled with spiders of any sort. I attempt to avoid those at all costs. There are certain ones of those who seem to be prone to penetrating the epidermis as well. Best to leave all of them to themselves. There are other insects that jump, fly or land, sting, bite or annoy. Thankfully, a fly swatter is a good weapon for most, but it does little about gnats or no-see-ums that seem to like to swim in whatever beverage I've just poured for myself. </b><br />
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<b>Ok...you have a point if you've said that most of the above have been created as a food source for some other of God's creation. I get that, but why must this food source be so annoying to humans?</b><br />
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<b>Insects was not even a thought when I began to write this peice. I had something else in mind.... reptiles. I'm not going to even enter the word for long, squiggly, cold-blooded things. Those, and even the thought of them, make my skin crawl. But, here in the southeast, we have some other critters of reptilian descent....lizards. They don't usually bother me, except to scare me out of my flip flops when one streams silently past on the front porch. Right now, though, I'm extremely bothered by the fact that a 6-7" blue one has made it's way into my sunroom, and I can't find it. I saw it....well, it's tail....as I entered the room yesterday afternoon. He's lucky he made it past me before my foot landed on him. I'm lucky too, because I think I'd have passed out.</b><br />
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<b>So, until my Hero can catch this danged thing, I must share my favorite room with him. I'm not happy about it at all, but if there's any good that can come of it, maybe he will catch the gnats or other little insects that fly in whenever someone opens the door to the outside. Or....maybe he's lying in wait somewhere so that when my husband exits to enjoy his coffee on the back steps, old Blue will dart for the open door! I'll bet he's no happier inside than I am to have him.</b><br />
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<b>Not wanting to end up in the Atlanta Burn Center, I grabbed the phone and dialed my Mom's house, where Mike had just gone to deliver some peaches and let him know that there was a pan on fire. He raced across the street to our house with the speed of a champion sprinter. He quickly extinguished the fire by placing the lid over the now-shorter dancing flames, as the smoke alarms were screaming all over the house, and the smoke was filling every room. </b><br />
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<b>We opened all the windows and turned on the ceiling fans and exhaust fans in the bathrooms and kitchen. Before long, the smoke was out and by bedtime we were able to close the windows again.</b><br />
<b>However, this morning, when I got up, there was the distinct smell of an over-done steak and burned fried onions. </b><br />
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<b>Maybe Fabreze will use my story for their next advertisement. The whole incident should be turned to <i>something </i>worthwhile.</b><br />
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<b>In the meantime, while I wait for the royalties to roll in, let me encourage every young woman to marry a fireman. Let me remind every cook that surprises can happen, and that even though 'a watched pot never boils', a watched frying pan <i>can </i>catch fire. Let me tell you that smoke alarms are very annoying when they randomly go off without cause (or when batteries need replacement) but they are extremely important to have in working order. Do not slack off on this list bit of advice.</b><br />
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<b>I do know, however, what I <i>won't </i>be. I won't be <i>several </i> things. I will never be a college student working toward a specific degree, because I've never liked school. Please don't misunderstand. I <i>do</i> enjoy learning, but at my own pace, and in ways other than sitting in class rooms or lectures with boring instructors. I'm not an avid reader, unlike so many of my friends are. I enjoy reading, but only things that interest me, not long books. I will never be a mathmatician, bookkeeper, tax preparer, accountant, or anyone else who works with numbers. We have never been compatible... numbers and I, I mean. </b><br />
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<b>I will never be a race car driver. I abhor speed demon driving, or riding, for that matter. I'm not a terrific passenger, because I'm always jamming my foot on the imaginary brake, or grabbing the bar above the passenger door when driver is flying down the curvy back roads or on the horrendous interstate highways. But, unless I want to stay at home, doing nothing....which I do not, I must endure those harrowing experiences of speed unleashed. </b><br />
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<b>I will never be a window washer or leap from tall buildings with a single bound. I will never climb mountains on foot paths, or rock walls inside buildings or outside of them either. I don't like heights at all. I get dizzy. I won't be a miner or one who explores the beautiful under world of stalactites and stalagmites. I'm a bit claustrophobic. I'll never be a world traveler, though I would consider that should by bank account allow it. I'll never be a clown or a comedienne, although I think it would be fun to be one, I'm not that funny. Besides, clowns often scare people, especially little kids, and that would not be fun.</b><br />
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<b>No, I'll never be any of the above....or a myriad of other things. But, do you know what? I'm not the least bit upset over what I'll never be. I know who and what I am....a very happy wife, a loved daughter, an available mother and a loving Grandmother. I'm completely content being ME...whoever that is at the moment, and I wouldn't change a thing!</b>Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16143091661970531440noreply@blogger.com2